Dear women who are writing to me about having been with my ex,
Thank you. From the bottom of my soul, thank you.
I just received another email message this morning from a brave woman. I think that brings the count to 10, now. I know what you’ve been through from your gut wrenching accounts and from my own personal experience with him. Each time I read a new message from a woman who was pursued and abused by my him, my heart just breaks for all of us.
If you’ve written to me and would like to share more, please do. You can do so anonymously on my contact page or in comments, as many of you have.
I wish I could take your pain away.
I wish I could take the feeling of shame and stupidity away.
I wish I could get your money back, for those of you who loaned him money or paid the bills.
What I CAN DO is let you know you’re not alone. You’re not stupid. You’re a beautiful human being who opened her heart. That’s all.
I also want to stress one more thing.
Please get STD testing done, if you haven’t.
I was diagnosed with HPV after never having had it before nor ever having an irregular pap smear. It’s the eve of my appointment to determine which procedure they will perform to clear me of any early stage cervical cancer. This was caused by HPV. My doctor believes I contracted HPV sometime in the last three years. I wrote more about it here. The good news is that all other tests came back negative which is truly shocking, given the number of partners I believe he has had based on all of the messages I’m receiving.
I am here for you. I will listen. You are not alone.
Excerpt from one of the messages I received:
I too am a victim of his abuse like you were.......................I have been reading your blog and you are truly a hero to all of us that have been deceived by this monster. He disgusts me and I feel so stupid for falling for his BS. Karma as you have described seems to be waiting way too long to take effect. I know I should forget and forgive but its just so hard. By your posts you help ease my pain and the pain of so many others. As the tears are running down my face, thank you for all that you have done to stop this inhuman human. Your friend in spirit xxx."